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Reconnect · tonight
The Connection Deck
You stop talking about the kids and start talking about each other again. No prep. No pressure.
For parents who feel like roommates
You’re amazing parents.
Now get back to being a couple.
The simple at-home system that helps you talk, laugh and feel close again, in 15 minutes a night after the kids are asleep. No therapist. No babysitter. No awkward “we need to talk.”
📘 The Us Reset Workbook
🃏 304 Connection Cards
🗓️ The Us Planner
Instant download · Use on your phone, tablet or print at home
$79.00
$37.00
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Sound familiar?
Somewhere between bedtimes, school pickups and laundry, “us” got lost.
If you’ve ever thought this
I love my kids more than anything. But becoming a mom quietly destroyed our relationship. We’re amazing parents… and a terrible couple.
- ✕Every conversation is logistics. “Did you sign the school form?” “Whose turn is bath time?” Then silence.
- ✕Two phones glowing in bed. Lying next to each other, completely detached.
- ✕You’re touched out and carrying the whole mental load. And the resentment builds quietly, because saying it starts a fight.
- ✕The same fight, every weekend. One of you gets defensive, the other goes silent for days.
- ✕Date night is always “when things calm down.” They never do.
- ✕You feel lonely in your own relationship. Even sitting side by side on the sofa.
If you’re quietly missing the person you married, you haven’t fallen out of love.
It means the kids got all your time, energy and attention, and nothing was left for the two of you. You don’t need a weekend away or months of therapy. You need a simple way back that fits into the life you already have.
The solution
Meet The Us Reset System™. Three tools. One job: getting you back to each other.
Most couples try one thing. A date night. A podcast. A book one of you never finishes. It works for a week, then life wins again. Lasting closeness takes three things: the spark, the skills and the habit. This gives you all three.
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Repair · this week
The Us Reset Workbook
Step-by-step exercises, inspired by Gottman research, that fix how you talk, so small things stop turning into the same fight.
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Protect · every month
The Us Planner
You put “us” back on the calendar, so the closeness doesn’t fade when life gets busy again.
Built for tired parents with 15 minutes a night, not couples with free weekends.
What’s inside
Everything you need. Nothing you won’t use.
The core of the system
The Us Reset Workbook
Guided couples workbook · Print it or fill it in on a tablet
Inspired by the Gottman Method, the approach behind 40+ years of research into what makes couples last and what breaks them. Turned into guided exercises you do together, at home, at your own pace.
- ✓Break the argument loop. Spot the “Four Horsemen” that predict breakups, and use repair phrases that stop a fight in seconds.
- ✓Finally get each other. Discover your communication and attachment styles, and why you keep clashing.
- ✓Stop shutting down. Self-soothing tools so you can pause a fight without days of cold silence.
- ✓Set boundaries without a fight. Share the load fairly and protect time for the two of you.
- ✓Rebuild trust and intimacy. Love Maps and daily connection rituals that bring the tenderness back.
- ✓Pull in the same direction. Agree on the goals and values you’re building toward, together.
Why it matters: one session with a couples therapist can cost more than this entire system. This puts proven, research-based tools in your hands, to use together, privately, whenever you’re ready.
Start tonight
The Connection Deck
304 cards · 19 categories · Print and cut, or read from your phone
304 questions that get you talking like you did before the kids. From silly to deep, from inside jokes to the dreams you’ve never said out loud.
- ✓No more “How was your day?” “Fine.” Every card starts a real conversation.
- ✓It feels like a game, not a lecture. Even partners who dread “the talk” end up asking for one more card.
- ✓Discover things you never knew, even after years together.
- ✓A card for every mood. From Memorable Moments and Future Plans to Intimacy & Romance.
Why it matters: it’s the fastest way back to feeling like a couple. Pull one card tonight and see how far one question takes you.
Make it stick
The Us Planner
Date nights, anniversaries & memories · Printable
The planner that makes sure “us” never slips off the calendar again.
- ✓End the “I don’t mind, what do you want to do?” loop. Write your dream dates and your free dates together, so cost and indecision stop being the excuse.
- ✓Date night actually happens. A monthly schedule, so it’s planned, not “someday.”
- ✓No last-minute panic. Plan birthdays and anniversaries with a budget and to-do list.
- ✓Keep what you’re rebuilding. Memory and photo pages for the moments you make together.
Why it matters: reconnecting for one night is easy. Staying connected takes a plan. This is the plan.
All 3 tools. One simple price.
$79.00
$37.00
SAVE $42.00
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Take a look inside
See exactly what you’re getting
Real pages and real cards, straight from your download.
Three real cards from the deck
Memorable Moments
What’s the smallest thing I’ve ever done that meant more to you than a big gesture would have?
Future Plans
Five years from now, what do you want to be true about us that isn’t true yet?
Dreams & Goals
What personal dream have you never told me, because it felt too big to say out loud?
A taste of the Workbook
Healthy communication · Clarity
Instead of saying:
“You never spend time with me.”
Try:
“I miss spending quality time together. Can we plan a night in this week?”
Common pitfall · Mind reading
“If you really loved me, you’d just know.”
Expecting your partner to know your needs without saying them sets you both up for resentment. The Workbook shows you what to say instead, and gives you space to practise it together.
Like what you see? It’s all yours tonight.
$79.00
$37.00
SAVE $42.00
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How it works
From “roommates” to “us” in four simple steps
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Get instant access
Checkout takes a minute. Your files land in your inbox straight away.
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Tonight: pull 3 cards
Kids asleep, phones down, 15 minutes on the sofa. That’s all it takes to start.
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This week: one exercise
Open the Workbook’s communication section and do one exercise together.
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Every month: plan “us”
Fill in your date nights in the Planner, so closeness becomes a habit, not a one-off.
What changes
Still great parents. A couple again too.
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You talk about each other again
Not just the kids, the bills and the week ahead.
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Fewer repeat fights
You’ll know what to say before the same argument starts again.
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Date nights actually happen
Planned on the calendar, not pushed to “when things calm down.”
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You feel looked at, not looked past
Wanted, not just needed. The flirting, the touch and the inside jokes come back.
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Private, at home, on your terms
No babysitter, no waiting list, nobody else in the room. Just your sofa and 15 minutes.
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Easy for your partner to say yes to
It feels like a game, not homework. No big talk, no “relationship project.”
Real reviews
Loved by couples. Used by couples therapists.
Real reviews from people who bought each tool.
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“The quality was amazing… I loved the book, it exceeded my expectations.”
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“Great product I will use in my couple’s sessions.”
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“Excellent workbook for couple’s therapy.”
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“Really liked the workbook, easy to follow”
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“Lots of good questions, can’t wait to try them out.”
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“Another great item and excellent quality”
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“It was quick and easy to download. I am sure we will have a lot of fun on our next trip.”
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“Easy to print great questions”
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“Able to plan and review. Simple to use.”
Your reset starts here
Everything you need to get “us” back
✦ The Us Reset System™ · Launch offer ✦
- ✓The Us Reset Workbook. Step-by-step exercises that stop the same fight coming back.
- ✓The Connection Deck, 304 cards. Start talking like a couple again, tonight.
- ✓The Us Planner. Keep date nights on the calendar, for good.
- ✓Instant download. Emailed to you the second you pay. Nothing ships.
- ✓Phone, tablet or print. Digital PDFs that work on any device.
- ✓Yours to keep. Pay once. No subscription, ever.
Launch price
$79.00
$37.00
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Questions
Before you start
What exactly do I get?+
Three digital tools: The Us Reset Workbook (guided exercises and communication sheets), The Connection Deck (304 conversation cards in 19 categories) and The Us Planner (date nights, anniversaries and memories). You get all three in one order.
How and when do I receive it?+
Instantly. As soon as your payment goes through, your files are on the confirmation page and in your inbox as PDF attachments. Nothing is shipped.
Can I use it on my phone or tablet?+
Yes. The files are PDFs that open on any phone, tablet or computer. To fill in the Workbook digitally, use any PDF note app on your tablet (for example GoodNotes or Notability), or print the pages you need.
Can I print it? A4 or US Letter?+
Yes. Print at home or at any print shop. The files are set up for US Letter and print perfectly on A4 too. Just choose “Fit to page” in your print settings.
My partner isn’t a talker. Will they actually do this?+
That’s exactly who it’s built for. You don’t announce a “relationship project.” You pull one card on the sofa. The question does the work, and it feels like a game, not homework. Start with the easy, fun categories and go deeper when you’re both ready.
We barely have time. How long does it take?+
15 minutes is enough. A few cards after the kids are asleep, one Workbook exercise a week, and ten minutes a month with the Planner. Go at your own pace. There’s no deadline.
Is this therapy?+
No. It’s an educational self-help system you use together at home. It isn’t a substitute for professional help. If you’re dealing with abuse or a crisis, please reach out to a qualified professional.
What if it’s not right for us?+
You’re covered by our 7-Day Money-Back Guarantee. Try it for 7 days. If it’s not right for you, email support@theconnectiondeck.com within 7 days from the email you used at checkout, and we’ll refund you to your original payment method. Refunds usually show up in 5–10 business days, depending on your bank. Full details are in our Refund Policy.
Is it a one-time payment?+
Yes. One payment of $37.00 USD. No subscription, no hidden fees. If you add anything extra at checkout, you’ll see the price before you pay.
Can I share it with friends?+
Your purchase is a personal-use licence for you and your partner. Please don’t share, resell or redistribute the files. If you’d like to gift it, enter their email at checkout and it goes straight to them.
Your kids need great parents. They also need to see two people who still love each other.
You don’t need more time, a weekend away or a therapist’s waiting list. You need 15 minutes tonight, and a simple system that does the rest.
$79.00
$37.00
SAVE $42.00
🛡️ 7-day money-back guarantee⚡ Instant access💳 One-time payment
